Woke up ridiculously early for a Saturday; it’s just wrong when your work sleep schedule bleeds into the weekend. I checked yahoo but D isn’t logged on (a fact that I find very annoying) and so I started a movie instead. If I’m not sleeping I might as well be doing something equally as unproductive and besides it’s a long weekend so I have plenty of time to get things done.
In case you’re wondering who D is, let me fill you in. D is the man I’m going to be spending my life with. Beyond that it’s a little complicated. We met at a bar following me being in a pretty bad car accident. It’s always a good start when you say “We met at a bar”, right? Well for us it ended up being good enough. After talking for a while, a group of us decided to go to his house after Sam’s (the bar) closed but I was the only one that went and it changed my life. That was Friday by Monday I was living there and until he moved home we never spent a day apart. Over the years that followed things were pretty crazy and got really bad for a while. We broke up but continued living together; a situation I would not recommend but I couldn’t ask him to leave and he didn’t want to so it was what it was. He ended up moving home to Romania and we stayed in contact. I know, I know. Staying friends with an ex is not a good idea. But, I just couldn’t imagine a life without him in it in some way. So, we fought and I cried and we laughed and, most importantly, we talked. We talked a lot and about everything. D and I had never developed a friendship (I guess that happens when you move in with a virtual stranger) so it was hard to try and be friends. Habits from the relationship seeped in and it stayed complicated but we worked through so much of what had happened before. It seems that complicated works for us because now after a couple years planning a life together then a couple years broken up, we are planning that life again. The plan this time begins with me moving to Romania where as before I would have been moving as his wife. Enough about D for now; you’ll be reading plenty about him as we go along.
Back to my Saturday that started way to early. I’m watching From Paris With Love right now and I had forgotten how cool Travolta really was. Truthfully, I should say it’s on in the background and, clearly, it’s not that amazing of a movie or I would be watching it instead of blogging. But, that does not detract from the coolness of the star. If you’re bored you should check it out. If nothing else it’ll make you long for The Expendables, a whole movie of stars you’ve forgotten are cool.
